So the wee man had his second visit with the cardiologist. And good news, the PDA (not that kind) that he had has cleared up..
But his ASD is still there
but the doctor is not worried about it. He acts and looks healthy and the situation has not gotten any worse so instead of visits every month its now six months away -- which is a good sign.
Nature will probably take care of it and we will think back on it and laugh.
2.5 months later it still seems sort of unreal.
Although the smile tends to light up your world and totally knows how to make sure people see it...